~ HEALING FROM AN ACCUSED LIFE ~ SOCIAL SUPPORTS

HEALING FROM AN ACCUSED LIFE

By: The Accused

~ Gettin Busted, Please Help! ~

Getting busted and your home raided by the authorities is a "Living Hell!" And no matter if one is guilty or innocent of the charges thrown at them, the feelings of dread and misery is all the same. To seeing everything you owned get taken away as evidence and, all the close friends and loved ones you thought you had suddenly turn away and hate you. Yeah, its a horrible loss! And the many broken feelings, pains and sufferings that follow is immeasurable too. Perhaps even, to a point to where a busted person wants to give up and hide from everyone. And quite frankly, this is what any authority based legal system is good at creating. All leading a person to feel utterly screwed and totally alone! Especially for the busted innocent, its a continual never ending shame filled nightmare.

But what if? I mean, what if a person actually committed the crime(s) they are being charged and busted with? And despite wanting to hide that shameful truth from everyone, they know deep down that they did it and are actually guilty. Again, the feelings of wanting to give up and hide might be the same as a wrongly accused person. However the truth is, "if ya know ya did the crime(s) then, running and hiding away from them will only make it worse on you in the end."

So now at the beginning before your Criminal Trial and Sentencing, its advisable to work with your defense attorney and be completely honest with them. For at that point, you have a right of privacy and are protected under the Attorney Client Privilege Rules. And, its best to follow their given legal advice too. For in the end, if your up front and honest with them then, they can perhaps work a deal with the court which is in your favor - ie less jail / prison time and or, none at all with a set probation time frame of a few plus years. So again for the guilty and not guilty, hiding away is not a good option. Especially, if you truly want to heal and change your life for the better.

Now to be brutally honest here, finding personal healing with the aforementioned takes a lot of work and, it might seem impossible at times too. Because as it's understood, we all will and do suffer from some form of denial in our lives at various times. This is a human condition. However working through it, is what pulls us out of it to the other side where peace and comfort can coexist to help us deal with our past hurts and wrongs. And yes, we all got them!

*Additionally, seeking individual professional counseling in your area can help in dealing with the tough emotional trauma you may have received too.

***AND PLEASE NOTE, THOSE WHO ARE GUILTY OF SEX OFFENSES SHOULD NEVER REVEAL ANY UNCHARGED VICTIM NAMES TO A PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR OR ETC. OTHERWISE, THEY ARE LEGALLY OBLIGATED TO REPORT IT TO THE AUTHORITIES AND THUS, YOU THE CONFESSOR, COULD BE CHARGED WITH NEW CRIMES! WHENCE ONLY USE NICKNAMES IN THAT REGARD IF, SO REQUIRED.***

~ Here are some helpful links below. ~

{ SEX OFFENDER HELP & INFORMATION SITES }

<> Once Fallen - ( oncefallen.com )

<> North Carolina (NC) Second Chance Alliance - ( ncsecondchance.org )

<> National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws - ( www.narsol.org )

<> B4U-ACT - ( www.b4uact.org )

<> Stop It Now! - ( www.stopitnow.org )

*The sites below are only for information purposes regarding MAP (Minor Attracted People) and what their identity is defined as. HOWEVER, Please Understand that this site does not condone nor, take up a position regarding their political, social and personal view points. "Reader Discretion" is advised.

*Here is an article below on Protection Yourself Online while visiting these sites, should you feel the need to do so. PLEASE NOTE: This is also recommended too.

<> Protect Yourself Online - MSC's Official Blog - Anonymous User Edited

{ FOR "MAP" SOCIAL AREAS WITH LGBTQ+, SOME CHRISTIAN FAITH AREAS AND ETC }

<> MAP Support Club ( MSC ) Minor Attracted People Community - ( mapsupport.club )

<> MAP Resources - ( www.mapresources.info ) Expert support for MAP persons

<> Mu - UK based group. MAP (Minor Attracted People) & Allies - ( www.map-union.org )

<> NewgonWiki - Information center for the MAP movement, identity and community

<> THE TREVER PROJECT - LGBTQ+ Support

<> Help For Pedophiles - Supporting sites for those struggling with MAP desires

<> Virtuous Pedophiles - Pedophiles against adult-child sexual contact & exploitation

"Christian Pedophile"

christianpedophile.org

"Finding a way through pedophilia with Jesus Christ."

YouTube Podcast (No Videos) Channel

Nice insightful interviews and true stories by convicted
pedophiles who worked to turn their lives around for
the betterment of themselves and their communities.

NOTE:

This website will work on a Tor Web Browser. However, some its
links must be visited while using a non-tor based web browser
like Firefox, Chrome, Microsoft Edge and or, etc. ALSO, their
website is a little tricky with some VPN services. Yet, they do
have web browser verification process that takes a
bit to get through.

For their "YouTube Channel," a Gmail account is required
to access and listen to their posted podcasts. A free
account can be created at accounts.google.com.

{ SOME NETWORK MENTAL HELP SITES }

<> Mental Hub - A service from the Helsinki Uusimaa Hospital in Finland.

<> Association for Sexual Abuse Prevention - ( asapinternational.org ) - Therapy People

<> Help Wanted Prevention - Listed online courses to help those with MAP areas

<> LifeLine - A real-time support chat for people who are attracted to children

{ HELPFUL DOCS AND MATERIALS }

*A TOR Web Browser is required to view any listed (TOR) linked websites below. ALSO, there is No Illegal Content on these sites listed here either. Plus, these are not suitable replacements for proper in-person professional therapy as well. Also in the effort of protecting one's personal privacy, the TOR Web Browser can be a benefit with the listed sites below too. So please be safe and responsible with your usage of the TOR Web Browser.

<> In the Shadows of the Net - Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior - 2009 (PDF)

<> Registering with Dignity: A Practical Guide for Reentry and Life on the Registry (PDF)

<> Your Life On The List - 3rd Edition - January 2023 (PDF)

{ BOOKS AND ARTICLES }

Articles:

<> I Spent A Year Living With Non-Offending Pedophiles A. M. Wilson - 2017

<> How Can We Stop Pedophiles? Stop treating them like monsters. J.B. - 2012

<> Pedo Help - Association Une Vie Network - 2026 *WARNING* Adult Descriptive Content!

<> Is life still worth living after being accused of possessing CSAM? Reddit 2024

<> "I, Pedophile" - By David-Goldberg - NAASCA.org August 26th, 2013

<> "I'm a Pedophile, but Not a Monster" - Todd-Nickerson - Alternet.org 09/21/2015

<> The Human Element - (Pedophiles) By ExtraOrdinary - Activism Archive (03/14/2020)

<> You Are Not Alone: A Look At Society’s Pedophilia Stereotype (03/14/2020)

<> What We Virtuous Pedophiles Really Believe (10/28/2021)

PDF Books:

<> Child Pornography O'Brien, Shirley - 1983

<> The Hidden Monster - Pedophilia Shawn Michael Dove - 2002

<> Paedophiles In Society. Reflecting On Sexuality, Abuse & Hope S. D. Goode -- 2011

<> Conversations With A Pedophile Amy Hammel-Zabin -- 2003